All or Nothing

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So it officially happened.  I hit the dreaded 3.0. and I must say, it wasn’t as terrible as I anticipated.  I only cried twice.  One of which was because I was so overwhelmed by love and gratitude; so I am calling that a win.  I have been writing about trying to keep myself healthy in mind, body and spirit and I filled my day with things that could help with that.  I went on a hike in the morning with my friends, got a mani/pedi (mandatory for birthdays and special occasions), finally went to the LACMA (see I am getting cultural), and then got taken to a beautiful dinner at a Top Chef restaurant.  This one day would have been great enough, but in true Suzanne fashion, I had a packed weekend as well!

That is something I realized about myself.  I don’t do grey very well (you don’t have to worry about my 50 shades any time soon).  I got from zero to 100 in a matter of moments then don’t slow down.  In a few short days, I finished the first section of my real estate school, had the first meetings for a reality show I am creating, shot a short film, zip lined, had two more birthday celebrations, went to a volunteer orientation for a new charity I want to work with, hit the gym, cleaned, grocery shopped, and celebrated another friend who turned thirty as well.  Now, I want a nap.

Now that I’m thirty – wow that’s still hard to say, I want to learn how to balance my life.  I love being busy, it’s good for me, but when I pack so much in I get a little overwhelmed and want to take a huge break and do nothing for awhile.  Unfortunately, this is life and you don’t get any timeouts.  I think that is what 30 will be for me, finding grey.  The all or nothing approach isn’t sustainable for a happy and balanced life.  And that’s really the goal isn’t it?

Xoxo-

Suzanne

Val-Gal-Pal-entine’s Day

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Love: a simple word with astronomical effects on the human spirit.  The number of Valentine’s Day posts about how it was “Single Awareness Day” aka S.A.D., was staggering.  I feel like people have been missing the whole point of the holiday – to celebrate love.  Yes, I know it traditionally celebrates romantic love, but let’s break with tradition shall we?  I got the customary gifts of flowers and chocolates, and not from my mister.

I’ve been in an on again/off again relationship for the past three and a half years, and not ONCE has Valentine’s Day gone as planned.  This year we decided to take the pressure off of it since he had to work and I decided to go out with my girlfriends. GALentine’s Day was in full effect.  These ladies love musicals, theater and art so we found an interactive cabaret experience (booze included) with songs from Les Miserables.  Historically this is a very sad story. I thought it was fitting since our men were at work, but this show was HILARIOUS!  From drunken Inn keepers to a policeman with a ball gag, we were laughing the whole time.  (Check out #notLesMis – for info).

The show really made me think: you can truly change your feelings about history based on your point of view.  So let’s choose happy.  Grab a glass of champagne and toast those that are nearest and dearest to you – whether that’s a spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, family member or best friend that you know will answer the phone at 2AM when you’re in a fight with said spouse/boy/girlfriend.  Let’s not miss out on the opportunity to tell them they are loved, because they may really need to hear it.

xoxo –

Suzanne